Ultimate Buying Guide of Custom Realistic Sex Dolls: Features, Customization, & Maintenance
If you’re considering purchasing a realistic silicone sex doll, this guide provides expert insights into customization options, key features, and maintenance tips to help you make the best choice
Table of Contents
How to Buy a Custom Sex Doll
Choose Product:
You can choose sex dolls from “Shop”-“Filter”, Or “Video”- “♡”.
Then select customization options for each doll
Payment:
Paypal 丨 Credit Card 丨 Bank Transfer
Production:
Production Starts 24 hours after payment. Please confirm asap if you need to change the order.
Confirmation:
After the doll is completed, we will take photos and videos to confirm with customers. Please add our WhatsApp or Messenger.
Express air transport:
Express to USA: 5-7 days 丨 Express to Europe: 15-20 days.
Tracking Number:
We will send you the tracking number via email or WhatsApp.
Below is the operation guide:





Shipping and Delivery Information
Custom Sex Dolls
5-7 days production from Chinese factory.
China to North America 7-10 days by Air, China to Europe 15-20 days by Air.
USA Stock Sex Dolls
Germany Stock Sex Dolls
Canada Stock Sex Dolls
UK Stock Sex Dolls
1-2 days preparation for overseas stock sex dolls
Local Delivery 3-7 days
Confidential Packaging Delivery
Your privacy is important to us, so our packages come in plain cardboard packaging with no logo. No one knows what’s inside.
Tracking Number
After delivery, we will send you the tracking number by email, or you can directly find “My Acount” to check.
Payment
XYlover accepts three payment methods: credit card, PayPal transfer and bank transfer. After selecting your sex doll, please enter your name, contact information and shipping address. Then select your preferred payment method.
Payment process:
For credit card payment, please enter your credit card information and click “Checkout” to complete the order.
For PayPal payment, please enter your PayPal information and click “Checkout” to complete the order.
For bulk orders, bank transfer is recommended to reduce transfer fees.
Return Policy
All XYlover’s Sex Dolls have passed strict quality inspections before leaving the factory. We will take photos/videos to confirm with customers before shipping.
We will start production within 24 hours after receiving your order. Once the sex doll is in production, you cannot cancel the order.
Refund policy within 24 hours after payment (custom orders cannot be cancelled/refunded):
90% refundable within 4 hours after payment
80% refundable within 24 hours after payment
Refund policy within 24 hours of receipt:
If your sex doll is defective when you receive it and has not been used in any way, we can arrange to return the sex doll as long as you notify us within 24 hours of receiving the sex doll. However, we do not bear the return shipping costs. If the sex doll returned to us cannot be delivered, a 20% handling fee will be charged and no refund will be given.
Confirmation before Shipping
Before shipment, we will provide photos and videos of the customized sex doll to customers to confirm the quality of the silicone dolls


Customization Options for Sex Doll
As premium adult toys, sex dolls boast exquisite craftsmanship and lifelike appearance. However, proper cleaning and careare crucial to ensure their long-term usage and hygiene. in this blog, we will provide you with simple yet effective methodsto correctly clean and maintain your sex dols, allowing them to radiate lasting allure.Before beginning the cleaning processensure you have the appropriate cleaning supplies, such as warm water, mild detergent, or specialized sex toy cleaner Avoidusing cleaners containing alcohol, bleach, or other strong chemicals to prevent damage to the sex doll.
There will be sound feedback when touching five parts of the body. The doll moans to enhance your experience and can be turned on/off.
Amazing features! That greatly enhance the pleasure and achieve the sucking effect through the internal electronics.
Your sex doll can nodding now, It is also equipped with an oral mechanism to complete the automatic oral sex function.TIPS: The Nodding-Blowjob module is inside the body and cannot be repaired if it fails. Once sold, the factory does not accept after-sales treatment, but the failure does not affect daily use.
This function can make the chest shake and is full of fun.
Devices implanted in the doll’s chest make the doll’s chest rise and fall, simulating breathing movements, adding realism and bringing your doll to life!
Body makeup makes the skin look very realistic, including veins and small body details.
The most popular type of breasts among users, they are particularly soft, elastic and very realistic.
TPE Body: TPE material is soft and elastic and is the body material of most sex dolls.
Silicone Body: Silicone material is harder, the skin texture is more realistic, and the service life is longer. It is often used in high-end and exquisite dolls.
Select your desired eye color.
Free upgrade: Order now to upgrade to movable eyes, which can make the doll’s expressions richer and look more lifelike.
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Standard Mouth(TPE): There is a channel in the mouth, But no tongue and teeth.
Build-in Tongue Mouth: There is a tongue in the mouth, But no teeth.
Teeth suit: WM DOLL Normal-Type teeth.
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Super Realistic Vagina, Contains the cervix and urethra.Further enhance the sense of reality
What is the difference between Normal Skeleton and Yoga Skeleton?
Normal skeleton: The most commonly used doll body skeleton structure can realize basic movements.
Yoga skeleton: A more complex structure with more flexible joints can achieve almost all human postures.
What is the difference between Wire finger bones and Joint finger bones?
Wire fingers: It is composed of multiple stainless steel wires. It has no joints and cannot simulate the movements of human fingers. When using it, be careful not to puncture the skin of your hand.
Joint fingers: Using a stainless steel frame and precision joint technology, each finger has three joints, which can completely simulate human finger movements and look more realistic and natural.
Built-in vagina: Also called a fixed vagina, is a permanent feature that looks like a real vagina, which makes it more realistic and provides real physical contact.
Removable vagina: The removable vagina is a TPE tube that can be inserted into the vaginal cavity of the love doll. You can add or remove it from the doll’s vagina. It is easier to clean and maintain.
Non Standing: Cannot stand, without support structure.
Standing With Bolts: There is a structure inside the sole of the foot to support standing, and the bolts can reduce the friction between the foot and the floor and help protect the skin of the sole of the foot.
Standing without Bolts (silicone Body only): After selecting this option, the soles of the feet will be made with different processes, which are harder than ordinary feet and can support the body to stand without causing damage to the soles of the feet.
Hair Implant: Hair transplants are permanent and look more real, but they cannot be replaced. The hair is manually implanted into the silicone scalp one by one using special equipment. It looks very realistic and is suitable for hard silicone heads.
Wig: Wigs are removable and replaceable, and you can easily create different looks for your doll using different wigs to play different roles, but wigs are not as natural as hair transplants.
The face is made from S-TPE material, allowing you to use your hands to mold the eyes, cheeks, mouth, nose, tongue, and chin, creating expressions such as smiling, surprise, joy, anger, and sadness.
How to Use XYlover's Sex Doll
Electric Function-Auto Vaginal Sucking
The Auto Vaginal Sucking function uses an electric device inside the doll to create a sucking-like sensation around the user’s genital area, which can enhance the pleasure and intensity of the user’s experience.
To accomplish this, a device similar to a vacuum masturbation cup is installed on the outside of the vagina.
Electric Function-Touch Sensitive Moaning
There will be sound feedback when touching five parts of the body. The sex doll moans to enhance your experience and can be turned on/off.
Electric Function-Nodding Blowjob
Your sex doll can nodding now, It is also equipped with an oral mechanism to complete the automatic oral sex function.TIPS: The Nodding-Blowjob module is inside the body and cannot be repaired if it fails. Once sold, the factory does not accept after-sales treatment, but the failure does not affect daily use.
Auto-Breathing
Devices implanted in the doll’s chest make the doll’s chest rise and fall, simulating breathing movements, adding realism and bringing your doll to life!
Install Head&Body
There are two installation methods:
1. Snap-Lock Screw Installation: First, install the screw into the neck, then firmly snap the head into place from top to bottom.
2. Screw Installation: First, install the screw into the neck, then insert the head onto the neck screw and rotate to tighten securely.
How to wear a wig correctly
First, put on the wig cap and slowly slide the wig onto the top, adjusting it in all directions. Then, use hair clips to secure the wig to the cap along the edges. Avoid overly tight elastic bands, as they may leave marks if worn for too long. Simply choose the right wig size for your doll, brush it, and keep it clean.
AI Function
- Eight Personality Modes available
- One-Year Free Connectivity
- Al Emotional Companion
- Dirty Talk flirting
- Moaning Responses
- Memory Functibnality
Accessories of Sex Doll
We offer a wide range of accessories, including heads, clothing, storage cases, cleaning kits, and more. These additions enhance your intimate experience and deepen your connection.
This is a lockable flight case with travel wheels. Durable and sturdy, it’s the perfect solution for storage and transportation while ensuring privacy. Once locked, it keeps prying eyes away.
After purchase, please provide your doll’s exact measurements to ensure the flight case fits properly.
Note: The flight case is made to order, and delivery may take up to three additional weeks.
We are not responsible for any damage caused by shipping.
Tip: Buying the flight case together with a doll will be more cost-effective.
This is a lockable storage sofa with a stylish design, perfect for storing your doll while ensuring privacy. Once locked, it keeps prying eyes away.
After purchase, please provide your doll’s exact measurements to ensure a proper fit.
Note: The storage sofa is made to order, and delivery may take up to three additional weeks.
We are not responsible for any damage caused during shipping.
Tip: Purchasing the storage sofa together with a doll is more cost-effective. The final product is subject to the actual item received.
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Specifically designed for storing spare doll heads, it is compatible with most TPE/silicone dolls featuring an M16 head connector.
Tip: The final product is subject to the actual item received.
A USB-powered heater designed for warming the vaginal and anal areas.
Tip: The final product is subject to the actual item received.
Designed for cleaning the vaginal and anal areas. Follow these steps for effective cleaning:
1. Fill the provided bottle with clean water or a mild soap solution.
2. Squeeze the bottle to release water and rinse thoroughly.
3. Gently insert the nozzle into the vaginal or anal area.
4. Repeat the process several times until fully cleaned.
5. For the final rinse, use clean water.
Powerful Vibrating Egg – Focuses vibrations on your clitoris, nipples, and other sensitive areas for maximum effect. Designed for precise clitoral and G-spot stimulation, helping you reach orgasm quickly.
Helps suspend the doll for storage without touching the ground.
XYlover’s Electronic Ultra-sonic Sex Doll Cleaning Kit is available now!
New electronic cleaning kit, keeping your doll clean after use is effortless. Just press a button, and the machine does all the cleaning for you, ensuring thorough hygiene.
Posture - Range of Motion of Sex Doll Skeleton
Your sex doll can be posed in various lifelike positions. To ensure durability and maintain appearance, avoid excessive force or extreme angles that may cause damage. Follow the movement guidelines for smooth, natural motion. Read the instructions carefully and handle with care.
The head is connected to the body and can rotate freely to the left or right. To prevent spinal injury, the head should not tilt forward, backward, or sideways beyond a 45-degree angle.
The upper arm can move forward about 120 degrees and backward about 45 degrees.
Do not raise the upper arm to the side beyond 120 degrees to avoid tearing the armpit skin.
The lower arm can bend 90 degrees in one direction. Do not bend or rotate it in other directions.
The lower arm can rotate up to 60 degrees, and the wrist can bend up and down 45 degrees.
The lower arm can rotate up to 60 degrees, and the wrist can bend up and down 45 degrees.
The palms and fingers should not be excessively bent or subjected to too much pressure.
The doll's waist can bend forward and backward (arching and straightening), with a maximum angle of 30 degrees. The body can also rotate left and right (twisting), with a limit of 30 degrees.
When the waist is both bending and rotating simultaneously, the angles in each direction are combined, and the limit is reduced by half. For example, if the waist is bent forward and twisted to the left at the same time, the maximum angle for each direction will be reduced to 15 degrees.
The thigh can be raised forward up to a maximum of 120 degrees, backward up to a maximum of 30 degrees, and to the side up to a maximum of 40 degrees.
The lower leg can bend backward up to a maximum of 120 degrees, with a recommended angle of 100 degrees. Shoes are required for standing to prevent skin abrasion.
The ankles should not be excessively bent or subjected to too much pressure. The doll should not stand on sharp or uneven surfaces to avoid skin and skeleton damage.
Cleaning and Storage Tips
As high-end adult toys, sex dolls have exquisite craftsmanship and realistic appearance. However, proper cleaning and care are essential to ensure its long-term use and hygiene. We’ll provide you with simple yet effective ways to properly clean and care for your sex doll. Before you begin the cleaning process, make sure you have the appropriate cleaning supplies, such as warm water, a mild detergent, or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Avoid using cleaners that contain alcohol, bleach, or other strong chemicals to prevent damage to your sex doll.
Wiping with a Damp Cloth: Start by wiping the surface of the sex doll with a damp cloth to remove dust and dirt.
Use Mild Cleaning Solution: Use a suitable amount of warm water and mild detergent or specialized sex doll cleaner. With a sponge gently clean the sex doll’s skin. During cleaning, avoid letting water enter the doll’s internal parts.
Squeeze the neutral detergent into the douche, add an appropriate amount of water and shake out the bubbles to clean the doll's vagina. After cleaning, rinse with clean water and dry with a soft, clean towel.
Once you're done cleaning, use a towel to dry the sex doll while keeping the doll consistent, making sure there's no residual moisture.
Avoid exposure to the sun and high temperature: After the doll is dry, place it in a ventilated and dry place to avoid exposure to the sun or high temperature to prevent the doll from being injured.
After the doll is completely dry, you can lightly apply talcum powder on the surface of the doll's skin to keep it dry, soft and smooth.
Maintenance and Care Tips
We don’t want the realistic doll to be damaged, but when that day comes, we still have to “heal” the realistic doll. Next, I will show you the factory’s operation process of repairing the doll, which can be used as a reference. For more repair work, you can ask our customer service.
1. Clean the tear:
Use a mild soap and water solution to clean the area around the tear. Gently wipe the area with a soft cloth or sponge.
Rinse with clean water and pat dry with a soft towel. Allow the area to dry completely.
2. Apply TPE glue:
Wear protective gloves.
Use a cotton swab to apply a small amount of TPE glue to both sides of the tear. Be careful to apply evenly and avoid using too much glue, as too much glue may damage the surrounding area.
3. Align the tear:
Carefully close the edges of the tear. Use a toothpick or a small applicator to ensure that the edges are perfectly aligned.Take the edges together for a few minutes to allow the glue to set. You can use tweezers for more precision.
4. Smooth the repair area:
Once the glue has set, gently smooth the area with a warm cloth. This helps blend the repair with the surrounding TPE material.
5. Curing:
Allow the repair area to cure for at least 24 hours before using the doll. This ensures that the glue is fully bonded and the repair is strong.
Body Materials: Silicone vs TPE
What is TPE sex doll?
TPE is sometimes referred to as thermoplastic rubber. It is a class of copolymers or a physical blend of polymers (usually plastic and rubber) composed of materials with both thermoplastic and elastomeric properties. TPE is widely used in the automotive and household appliance industries. Its flexibility, moldability, and soft texture make TPE one of the best choices for manufacturing realistic sex dolls at an affordable price.
What is a Silicone sex doll?
Silicone, or polysiloxane, is a mixture of silicon polymers with carbon, hydrogen, and oxygen. Due to its chemical inertness, water resistance, oxidation resistance, and stability at both high and low temperatures, silicone has been used in a wide range of commercial applications, including biomedical implants. Silicone sex dolls are more expensive than TPE dolls.
What are the advantages of TPE and silicone?
TPE stands for Thermoplastic Elastomer, sometimes known as thermoplastic rubbers. TPE dolls have a soft and elastic texture, providing a very life-like touch and they are cheaper. Silicone is the most resistant material. It can withstand high temperatures of 220 degrees. The silicone doll won’t be dyed and can achieve a very realistic effect. Silicone is better in terms of quality.
FAQ About Realistic Silicone Sex Dolls
Silicone sex dolls offer superior realism, durability, and ease of maintenance. They are known for their lifelike feel and longer lifespan compared to TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) dolls.
When choosing a sex doll, consider factors like material (silicone vs. TPE), customization options (head, body, and skin color), size, weight, and features like heating or moaning functions.
Yes, most manufacturers allow you to fully customize your sex doll’s head, body, and features such as hair color, eye color, and even facial expressions. You can also add advanced features like heated bodies or electronic movements.
Prices for silicone sex dolls typically range from $1,000 to $5,000, depending on the customization, material quality, and additional features like electric functions and artificial intelligence.
Proper maintenance includes regular cleaning with non-abrasive solutions, drying after use, storing in a safe place, and keeping it away from direct sunlight to prevent damage.
With proper care, silicone sex dolls can last many years. Regular maintenance such as cleaning and proper storage is crucial for extending their lifespan.
Shipping times vary based on your location. Most sex dolls are shipped discreetly to maintain privacy, and shipping can take anywhere from 7 to 30 days depending on the manufacturer and delivery method.
Silicone sex dolls are generally safe to use, but users should follow cleaning and care instructions to avoid issues like mold growth or material degradation.
Return policies vary by manufacturer, but most allow returns within a certain timeframe if the product is unused and in its original packaging. Always check the return policy before purchase.
Many manufacturers offer warranties for their products, covering defects in materials or craftsmanship for a period of one year or more.
Classification of Sex Dolls

Blonde Sex Doll
Dolls with a Western appearance, typically featuring blonde hair and light skin tones, popular among Western users.

Tan Sex Doll
Dolls with a tan or sun-kissed skin tone, often preferred for a healthy, exotic look.

Asian Milf Sex Doll
Dolls with Asian features and a more mature, milf-like appearance, catering to those who prefer a mature, sophisticated look.

Latino Sex Doll
Dolls with a Latino appearance, characterized by a mix of Western and Latin American traits.

Anime Sex Doll
Dolls based on Japanese anime characters, with large eyes, small mouths, and a cute, playful appearance. Often under 150cm, with 100cm being the most popular size.

Cosplay Sex Doll
Dolls designed to replicate characters from anime, movies, or games, featuring detailed costumes, hairstyles, and expressions.

Cute Sex Doll
Dolls designed with a youthful, cute, and innocent appearance, often with exaggerated features like large eyes.

Mini Sex Doll
Dolls with a height under 150cm, typically ranging from 60cm to 149cm.

Curvy Sex Doll
Dolls with a slim yet curvy body shape, featuring a variety of styles and electric functionalities.

Chubby Sex Doll
Dolls with a fuller, rounder body shape, often appreciated for their softness and natural curves.

BBW Sex Doll
Big Beautiful Women dolls, characterized by fuller figures and larger body types, catering to those who prefer a more voluptuous appearance.

Black Sex Doll
Dolls with dark skin tones, often preferred by those who appreciate Black features and culture.

Japanese Sex Doll
Dolls with Japanese facial features, commonly exhibiting a sweet, youthful look that mirrors Japanese beauty standards.

Elf Sex Doll
Dolls designed with elf-like features, such as pointed ears and large eyes, often with a fantasy or mystical appearance.

Orcs Sex Doll
Dolls with fantasy-based orc features, including rugged facial traits, large tusks, and strong, muscular physiques.

Arab Silicone Doll
Dolls with Middle Eastern or Arab features, characterized by dark skin and distinct facial features.